Say ‘Yes’ to the Midweek Activity
Friday Flutter Report 4.3.26
If you’re new here, each Friday I write about one action from the week that made an impact. Any topic or theme is fair game. Sometimes it’s the small or random or unexpected events that really stick with us.
The advice always seems to live in opposition. Some people will tell you to “say yes to every opportunity, you never know what will come from it,” while others will tell you to “say no to anything that isn’t essential.”
I could write an entire essay on why I believe both statements are wrong and why we need to stop operating in extremes, but that’s not the point of today’s article.
Today is about the good that can come from saying yes to one midweek activity.
I know, I know, you’re tired. Everyone’s tired and the sacred time between work and sleep evaporates quicker than a puddle in July. Have you considered, though, that part of the reason time feels funky and you feel so tired is because you’re bored? Rest is important, but so is play. There’s a time to take it easy and there’s a time to push past initial hesitations and do something enjoyable.
This past Wednesday, my friend had an extra ticket to a concert (The Last Dinner Party, if you were wondering) and invited me to go with her and a few others. My hectic work schedule this week could have been an excuse not to go, but instead I let it be the reason I should go. Life is more than just looking at different screens all day!
The evening turned out to be incredibly energizing and totally worth the late night. Not only did I get to socialize and listen to some great music, but I was reminded of how important it is to love what you do. The lead singer was so captivating, it was hard to look away from the stage. She is evidence that if you’re passionate about something, the energy radiates. I also believe if you’re struggling to find your own positive energy, then surrounding yourself with passionate people will help fuel you. I honestly felt more awake on Thursday than I would have if I’d skipped the concert.
I know this is a rather intense example of a midweek activity, but really anything that gets you out and about is wonderful. Find a garden to walk through, go play frisbee golf (not really my thing but I hear people love it), find a book club, take a cooking class, go for a swim, whatever makes your heart happy.
We have to start giving ourselves permission to enjoy life, regardless of what the calendar says.